Introduction

Introduction: Mapping Out a Plan for the Rest of My Life and Enjoying the Journey

My Golden Years are an extension of the life I have lived up to retirement which began on December 1, 2011. I have organized this blog to include the top ten relevant topics shown below in the right side column in General Topics. Just click on one and you will see all that I have written on that topic. Click on the Most Current tab for chronological order of all entries.

I have addressed each topic in no particular order other than what is currently on my mind on the day I am posting. I started each topic by describing where I was when I began this blog and then exploring the possibilities of progression and any goals that I would like to meet. After that, I write about the path to reach that goal as it happens. Sometimes I just write about what is happening now.

I welcome any comments and questions either on this blog or email as I travel these paths and hope to share my growth with interested persons who may find some common elements in their own path to the rest of their life. I hope to use my skills as an appraiser for nearly 30 years to continue to observe different perspectives on a subject and reconcile into a conclusion that is of value to me. Please join me whenever you like. Email notice of new posts is no longer available so just bookmark the address.

Of most importance to me is the confidence developed in my intuitive skills over the years and it is that part of my character I am trusting to define value in my life. I believe change can be good and I can be enriched by believing in my true self using my intuition. The analytical part of my life no longer has a financial grip and I can let go of what absolutely made sense at the time in favor of what feels right now. I have done a lot of work since this blog began in 2011 and I hope you will join me as I explore this approach in My Golden Years.


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Monday, January 4, 2016

High Tea, Downton Abbey Style




The beginning of 2016 also meant the start of the final season of the PBS Masterpiece Theater showing of Downton Abbey.  One of my Master Naturalist friends had recently been to England to visit Highclere Castle and had many wonderful photos and experiences to share.  A most appropriate way to do that was to host a high tea on the day of the first episode of the final season.  There was the option to dress-up in the styles of the 1920's.  Of course, all the guests were big fans of the show and it was fun to be part of that group of ladies, play dress-up, and have a "big girl" tea party!

The first thing to do was to get a hairstyle.  That was easy enough online as there were many how-to videos to choose from.  I choose the simplest finger wave bob.  I had practiced a couple days before and it was easy enough to get the look I wanted a few hours before the event.  I can understand the need for an "Anna" to fix the back as I just put in some waves and let it go at that!  The makeup was simple too as it was mostly about the "big eyes" and "Clara Bow" lips.



The dress I had was an old alfred angelo gown from my daughter's first wedding that needed re-purposed.  I added a few changes like the creme-colored top, lace gloves, pearl necklace and flat black shoes and hose.  The hostess of the tea party had a very lovely outfit she got in England.  There were many different hats and gloves provided by the hostess for all her guests, if wanted.  There was even a few gowns set out to borrow.


There were about a dozen ladies show up and here are the early guests.


The hostess set a beautiful table with cake, scones, tea sandwiches, nuts, candy, jam, and lemon curd.


Many of the tasty foods were recipes from England.



Of course there were many pots of hot water for tea!

Lots of interesting stories to share...



...from people of many experiences and travels...


                                                                               ...and more tea...


                                    ...and an author who wrote a book about her travels on Route 66!


I met new people and even made a new friend or two.


What a great way to start out the new year doing something new and different with interesting people!  I'm happy I came even though it seemed a little silly at first to have a dress-up tea party as an adult.  But it was nice and I'm glad I talked myself into it.  As the first episode of Downton Abbey began, I know this last season was one to be most remembered!


Friday, January 1, 2016

Hoppin' John for New Year's Day



"Eat poor that day, eat rich the rest of the year. Rice for riches and peas for peace."
Southern saying on eating a dish of Hoppin' John on New Year's Day.
 

We have had Hoppin' John  every New Year's Day since we moved to Missouri in 1978.  We have prospered in Missouri and have no regrets.  Some say I'm just full of beans.  Well, it takes a special kind of bean, I say!

"History of Hoppin John: Hoppin' John is found in most states of the South, but it is mainly associated with the Carolinas. Gullah or Low Country cuisine reflects the cooking of the Carolinas, especially the Sea islands (a cluster of islands stretching along the coats of south Carolina and northern Georgia). Black-eyed peas, also called cow peas, are thought to have been introduced to America by African slaves who worked the rice plantations. Hoppin' John is a rich bean dish made of black-eyed peas simmered with spicy sausages, ham hocks, or fat pork, and rice.
There are many variations to traditional Hoppin' John. Some cook the black-eyed peas and rice in one pot, while others insist on simmering them separately. Some also like to add the collard greens in the pot. The favorite way to eat a Hoppin’ John meal is with collard greens and corn bread. Each item on the plate has symbolic meaning for the New Year. Black-eyed Peas represent “coins,” collard greens represent money or “green backs”, corn bread represents “gold,” and if tomatoes are added to Hoppin’ John it symbolizes "health".
It was the custom for children to gather in the dining room as the dish was brought forth and hop around the table before sitting down to eat.
A man named John came "a-hoppin" when his wife took the dish from the stove.
An obscure South Carolina custom was inviting a guest to eat by saying, "Hop in, John"
The dish goes back at least as far as 1841, when, according to tradition, it was hawked in the streets of Charleston, South Carolina by a crippled black man who was know as Hoppin' John.

Southern Superstitions about Hoppin' John:
This African-American dish is traditionally a high point of New Year's Day, when a shiny dime is often buried among the black-eyed peas before serving.
Whoever gets the coin in his or her portion is assured good luck throughout the year. For maximum good luck in the new year, the first thing that should be eaten on New year's Day is Hoppin' John. At the stroke of midnight on New Year's Eve, many southern families toast each other with Champagne and a bowl of Hoppin' John. If it is served with collard greens you might, or might not, get rich during the coming year.
If you eat leftover Hoppin' John the day after New Year's Day, then the name changes to Skippin' Jenny since one is demonstrating their determination of frugality. Eating a bowl of Skippin' Jenny is believed to even better your chances for a prosperous New Year!" 
Source: Beyond Black-Eyed Pease: New Year's good-luck foods, by Mick Bann, Dec. 26,2008, Austin Chonicle.

"There is also another tradition in some parts of the South that you should count the number of peas in your serving to predict the amount of luck or wealth you will have for the coming year. If you leave three (3) peas on your plate when you are finished eating, then you New Year ahead will be filled with luck, good fortune, and romance."
Source: Wikipedia - Hoppin' John.


For 2016, I believe I have made the best dish so far and want to share my recipe:

Beti's Hoppin' John

Ingredients:
2 cups cooked black-eyed peas
2 cups cooked rice
2 cups broth, approximately
1 red onion, chopped
1 pound bacon, cut into small pieces
1 pound sausage
hot sauce and red pepper flakes, to taste

1. Cook the bacon pieces until crisp, remove from pan onto paper towels to drain fat.  Leave most fat in pan.

2.  Cook sausage in the bacon fat until brown, then add chopped onion.  Cover and cook on low without stirring for 10 minutes.  

3.  Completely drain away all fat.  Keep sausage and onion in pan.

4.  Add rice and black-eyed peas; thoroughly mix.

5.  Add broth to desired consistency.  Season with hot sauce and red pepper flakes.  Simmer for 30 minutes.

6.  Stir in bacon pieces just before serving.

Traditionally served with cornbread and cooked greens.  The type of ingredients and sides may vary.  Here are what I have found to be the best:

Black-eyed peas from cans, drained and rinsed.
Wild, black rice and Spanish rice; half and half mix.
Broth is from a smoked turkey we cooked at Christmas.
Bacon is low-sodium.
Sausage is Jimmy Dean's Natural.

Sides are whatever I have leftover and bread is whatever is on hand or I will make some fresh cornbread.  That is part of the frugality.  This dish is good using any version of the main ingredients of rice, black-eyed peas, and pork which most southerners always have on hand. How you put it together makes it your own.  Just like your prosperity...it is what you make it.

Enjoy and have a prosperous New Year!