Introduction

Introduction: Mapping Out a Plan for the Rest of My Life and Enjoying the Journey

My Golden Years are an extension of the life I have lived up to retirement which began on December 1, 2011. I have organized this blog to include the top ten relevant topics shown below in the right side column in General Topics. Just click on one and you will see all that I have written on that topic. Click on the Most Current tab for chronological order of all entries.

I have addressed each topic in no particular order other than what is currently on my mind on the day I am posting. I started each topic by describing where I was when I began this blog and then exploring the possibilities of progression and any goals that I would like to meet. After that, I write about the path to reach that goal as it happens. Sometimes I just write about what is happening now.

I welcome any comments and questions either on this blog or email as I travel these paths and hope to share my growth with interested persons who may find some common elements in their own path to the rest of their life. I hope to use my skills as an appraiser for nearly 30 years to continue to observe different perspectives on a subject and reconcile into a conclusion that is of value to me. Please join me whenever you like. Email notice of new posts is no longer available so just bookmark the address.

Of most importance to me is the confidence developed in my intuitive skills over the years and it is that part of my character I am trusting to define value in my life. I believe change can be good and I can be enriched by believing in my true self using my intuition. The analytical part of my life no longer has a financial grip and I can let go of what absolutely made sense at the time in favor of what feels right now. I have done a lot of work since this blog began in 2011 and I hope you will join me as I explore this approach in My Golden Years.


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Monday, February 25, 2013

My Yoga, My Life

My Grandmother - Louise Zabranska Osius (1897 - 1986) circa mid-late 1950's

Yoga has been a part of my life as long as I can remember.  My grandmother's influence was always there and continues to be an inspiration.  Yoga was the earliest connection I had with my grandmother.  Because she was estranged with her son, my father, I didn't meet my grandmother until I was a teenager when she came to visit for the first time.  Before that, my family went to see her in Florida on a short trip while my mother was pregnant with me.  There were yearly phone calls at Christmas.  There were a few gifts early on but they stopped by the time I went to school.  My inquires about my grandmother were met with tension and short answers.  I was able to learn some basic facts about her and but I have much more to learn.  I will research and learn more about her life as I discover her family's story in my genealogy quest which will continue in the near future.

                                                                                 1972

What I know for sure is that yoga saved my grandmother's life in the mid-1950's.  The purpose of my family's visit to Florida was for my grandmother to meet my mother and my two older brothers before she went blind.  My father said she had been in a car accident.  She had been to many doctors all over the world and there was nothing anyone had been able to do to save her sight.  Then she began a life centered around yoga.  She became director and instructor of Sivananda Vedanta Joga in her native Prague, Czechoslovakia for six months of the year and then in Florida for six months.  She would send photos and postcards and it is that life that I thought of whenever I thought of my grandmother.  I wanted to learn everything about yoga even before I could read.  There was very little information available to me in the 50's and 60's but I had a few writings and pictures from my grandmother.  I tried to copy the postures.  I learned about controlled breathing and awareness and becoming centered.  It was as familiar to me as the prayers I learned in parochial school.

                                                                                  1974

After we met for the first time in the late 1960's, we connected.  We are both Sagittarius.  Our family was Catholic.  Her short one-week visit was filled with tension from my parents but she was kind to me.  I expressed my long-time interest in yoga and she was pleased.  She helped me with some basic postures and breathing exercises.  She began writing to me personally and we finally had a relationship.  Being a teenager, my life went in many directions.  I always had my core beliefs in my Catholic faith and my connection with yoga.  I believe my grandmother wanted to be connected to me as best she could.  She gave me a book in 1976, The Complete Illustrated Book of Yoga by Swami Vishnudevananda which helped me greatly in the practice of Hatha and Raja Yoga.  This relationship continued until she passed away in the mid-1980's.  I still feel a spiritual connection with her every time I do yoga.

                                                                                1975

I continued to do yoga in some form as I found the time and defined a particular need.  By the time my children were in their teens, I began a more serious exploration into yoga and sought formal training in the late 1990's.  It took that long for information to become more readily available and attitudes to be more open to this eastern practice.  Yoga was finally becoming mainstream in the United States and now there's a flood of valuable information available and many teachers and many more people practicing.

My first formal class was in Bolivar, Missouri which took place above the Polk County Bank on the town square.  The teacher was a student of Loa Freeman who had a training center in Springfield, Missouri.   In Bolivar, I attained Level II in the Iyengar approach.  After a few years, I began going regularly to Springfield with Loa Freeman as my teacher at the new Success Naturally Yoga & Image Center located at 1440 E. Lark.  Information can now be found online:  successnaturally.com.  I had reached Level III and also took several additional issue-related classes by the time I had the confidence to developed my own personal routine which I could do in my home regularly.  I change it as needed.

Another great source now available online is: yogajournal.com.  I had subscribed to the magazine version for at least ten years up until 2002 and still consider it the best source to do yoga on your own.  I have noticed now that they make it very easy for one to put together a custom workout in the 'Poses' tab, click on 'Build a Sequence.'  I will be looking at this source more closely soon to refine my personal routine from time to time.

I try to do some form of yoga everyday.  Some days, it may be as little as breathing consciously and simple balance exercises while I go about my normal day.  Sometimes my 30 minute routine is done once a week and sometimes I do it everyday.  I am happy to know I can participate in a class at The Wellness Center at Southwest Baptist University in Bolivar where I have a membership five months of the year for 20 years now.  This is where I use the exercise equipment and swimming pool mostly.  The class this year is called Pi Yo which combines yoga with Pilate's.  Lately, I go once a week.


One positive thing about an empty nest is the extra space available when children leave home.  This open area can also be used an an extra bedroom when guests stay overnight.  I have a nice air bed available to put up in minutes and very little needs to change in my Yoga Room.  I also have an elliptical exercise machine on the other side of the room with a large fan for intense aerobic workouts at home.  It is important to me to be facing east as the sun rises as I usually do my yoga early.  I must include my music from my MP3 player which has a good speaker setup.  Mostly I listen to New Age music such as The Narada Collection, Yanni, Enya, and Kenny G and others but I also have a variety of native-spiritual sounds.  I enjoy scented candles for focus and atmosphere and I sometimes use a scent diffuser for aroma therapy.  I have a large collection of essential oils.  I have several books and source information readily available in my bookcase.  In the beginning, I found videos useful but I haven't viewed any in a long time.

There are some basic items needed to have a variety workout.  I bought all my basics from Hugger Mugger ten years ago.  They can be found at:  huggermugger.com.  I am still using everything I got from them and do not need any replacement in the foreseeable future.  My basic items include a Sticky Mat (do not go cheap for this item!), cotton strap, and a bolster.  I already had a Mexican blanket and it works well as it it the right size to fold lengthwise and cover the mat.  I bought a cut-out padded stool that is made specifically for doing inversions.  I also use a rubber tubing length for aid in the strength moves.  Most of this can be packed into a backpack should I want to take my own stuff to classes.  Typically, classes provide everything you need on site.

With my yoga in my life, I can be open to my intuition.  I do not know that I would have progressed as well without it.  I don't know because I have never been without it.  I am as sure about this as I am that the Holy Spirit has always been with me and I was trained early enough in eight years of parochial school to know and love God in my life.  I don't know a life without Him and yoga helps me keep my body and heart in a spiritual place that He would want to be invited into.  He is my source of intuition.  It all comes together naturally for me.


Yoga Wall Hanging - Sun Salutation sequence decorates the west wall in my Yoga Room.  It is hand-made in a special process of burnishing the metal that makes it stunning in the morning sunlight.  The Sanskrit symbol "Om" is placed appropriately in the center.

I am so happy that My Yoga is in My Life for almost 60 years!  Thanks, Grandma!

                                                Namaste.








Saturday, February 16, 2013

MacBook Pro and Me

I have recently purchased a MacBook Pro.  It is my first Apple product.  I have been involved with Microsoft products continuously for about 20 years and this is a big change for me!  I believe this technical change compliments my overall change in this phase of my life in retirement...to let go of what absolutely made sense to what feels right.  It is the right time for personal growth and I found the right product to get me there.

Microsoft products are very compatible with the constant changes in business. It is more conventional and institutional with its conformity.  It gets the job done.  Many times I would feel as if I was serving the machine instead of it serving me to get what I wanted or where I wanted to progress.  I became trained the more I used it and it became effective for my purposes...most of which were job related.  When I did use it for personal business, I became mentally exhausted in a couple hours and have to step away.  It seemed more like work than pleasure.  Social networking and media outlets became more of an escape and never a satisfying challenge for creativity.

Apple products are very intuitive and allows one to grow with undefined boundaries.  I am just beginning to see the potential!  I believe the people at Apple are constantly working to remove any boundaries once they are reached.  This outlook is very progressive.  It feels like the machine is serving my needs.  Now my time on social networking and media outlets are limited to just catching up on new events and my minimal contributions.  My time is well spent exploring all the potential for creativity that Apple has to offer.  I am delighted that I can search and find so many new ways to grow.

To begin with, I talked to other Apple-users and all agreed that Microsoft's Office program is the best product available for basic business applications.  A few years ago, it cost several hundred dollars to adapt Microsoft Office to an Apple computer.  I was told that Apple realized this was happening so they adapted their current computers to a partial acceptance of Microsoft Office and for one hundred dollars, Microsoft Office can completely be added to any Apple computer.  Now I can use Word, Excel, Power Point, and Outlook in my MacBook Pro just as I was use to it in a Microsoft computer.  I noticed that in each of these products, Apple has expanded options and offers many useful templates and tools that Microsoft did not.  I am just beginning to see all the useful office applications!  I have already updated all my spreadsheets and lists into much better formats and had fun doing it.

In the next few weeks, I will explore all the potential MacBook Pro has to offer as I begin my genealogy and digital photo album projects.  Soon I will purchase the newest version of Family Tree Maker and transfer all the work I have done on the old version.  As I become familiar with the new program, I will get ready to purchase membership in Ancestry.com to expand my research worldwide.  Since that membership is about $300 a year, I may wait until late fall when I can spend more time indoors again and get the most use out of such an expensive membership service.  In the meantime, I can expand my narratives in the new Family Tree Maker program.

I am also looking forward soon to scanning the photos I have carefully preserved in hard copy albums into digital scrapbooks.  For 40 years, I have kept photos in chronological order.  They are mounted on acid free paper in archive plastic sleeves in three-ring albums by year.  I would like to expand the narratives on each photo as well as use the tools available to create a memorable and interesting product.  I expect this project will take many years.  I believe I have the right equipment to allow my creativity to bloom.

While I'm enjoying my genealogy and photo projects, I see the potential for expansion of my music collection and the ease of making play lists available.  Right now, a 40-year music collection from personal CD's is on the Microsoft computer with many play lists on personal MP3 players.  I will rearrange and add new music easier now with Apple products.  So much more can be stored now with the use of iCloud.  I'm just beginning to see the potential!

MacBook Pro and Me are growing a wonderful friendship.  I am already making new friends with other Apple users and the support system is so much more than what I had before.  I have an 800 number that makes technical help available 24/7.  I also have The Geek Squad available by phone locally as well as in person at Best Buy in Springfield, MO as the closest Apple Store is in Kansas City.    The help available to me seems endless.  So far, I have done so much without the typical 'hand-holding' and step-by-step instruction usually needed as I learned Microsoft.  Apple is so much easier to learn because the information is presented in an intuitive way.  It is not a struggle but a simple path presentation.  It is all but done for you if you accept the ease in which it is presented.  It is an intuitive family.

To learn more about the MacBook Pro go to:  apple.com/macbook-pro
then scroll down to "OS X Mountain Lion - The world's most advanced desktop operating system"