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Introduction: Mapping Out a Plan for the Rest of My Life and Enjoying the Journey

My Golden Years are an extension of the life I have lived up to retirement which began on December 1, 2011. I have organized this blog to include the top ten relevant topics shown below in the right side column in General Topics. Just click on one and you will see all that I have written on that topic. Click on the Most Current tab for chronological order of all entries.

I have addressed each topic in no particular order other than what is currently on my mind on the day I am posting. I started each topic by describing where I was when I began this blog and then exploring the possibilities of progression and any goals that I would like to meet. After that, I write about the path to reach that goal as it happens. Sometimes I just write about what is happening now.

I welcome any comments and questions either on this blog or email as I travel these paths and hope to share my growth with interested persons who may find some common elements in their own path to the rest of their life. I hope to use my skills as an appraiser for nearly 30 years to continue to observe different perspectives on a subject and reconcile into a conclusion that is of value to me. Please join me whenever you like. Email notice of new posts is no longer available so just bookmark the address.

The Blog Archive tool is helpful to find posts by year. Of most importance to me is the confidence developed in my intuitive skills over the years and it is that part of my character I am trusting to define value in my life. I believe change can be good and I can be enriched by believing in my true self using my intuition. The analytical part of my life no longer has a financial grip and I can let go of what absolutely made sense at the time in favor of what feels right now. I have done a lot of work since this blog began in 2011 and I hope you will join me as I explore this approach in My Golden Years.


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Tuesday, October 11, 2022

2022. My Memorial Weekend Landscape & Gardens

 Another Memorial Weekend comes around and I love to see all the plants that remember to come up again!  We have been at this location since the fall of 1986 and soon began our love of landscaping and gardening.  There was no master plan; just bring in the river bottom dirt and build some structures.  The plants grew and so did we with ideas and skills as the years went on.  This is what we do best together and never thought of it as a chore or hard work even though that's exactly what it was to most people.  It's the joy of doing what you love that makes all the difference!  2022 marks the 10th year of my being a Missouri Master Gardener for Hickory County which means I have earned the Emeritus status which basically means I followed all the membership rules and don't have to follow them any more while still retaining all the benefits for the rest of my life.  Keith will be in the same status in a couple years.

I try to post what is looking good in our yard on the three major holidays - Memorial Weekend, Fourth of July, and Labor Day or end of season before frost.  It is the best way for me to journal what was there in the past, present, and what changes I might like to make.  Most of the plants at this time have returned from the previous year as self-seeders, perennials, natives, bulbs, vines, or bushes.  Come join me as I take a walk through our gardens...



The front yard begins at this point of a pie-shaped two lots fronting a cul-de-sac in the city limits of Hermitage, Missouri.  It is near the top of a hill with the Pomme de Terre River below.  It is a steep sloping two lots with corrections made by terracing and bringing in about 25 loads of good river-bottom soil shortly after we moved here in 1986.  This photo is the highest point.  It is dry and rocky so it is planted with a variety of succulents and prickly pear cactus, a Missouri native.  The evergreen bushes to the left are over 30 years old and have seen better days.  They have been a great public screen from the city street. We have lost the middle of 5-6 bushes in the past year.  I have added a couple tall pots to fill in for now but a plan to replant or replace this great privacy hedge is in the future.   The shallow topsoil is also great for iris bulbs on the right side.



This clematis trellis loves this showy location as we can enjoy it's blooms throughout the season and its blooms peak out for the street side.  I have more succulants that like growing in the smooth creek rock which has some debris and dirt collected over the years.  All these plants like it dry and sunny! The clemates needs water but doesn't like wet roots so this location works well and it in a good viewpoint from the house.




Overview of the top level terraced garden.  The peonies are about 30 years old and have been moved over to one side from the original location covering the top tier.  I have added shorter plants to this prime view including sedum at the edges, coneflowers, mums, salvia, phlox, and a couple oak-leaf hydrangea behind the bluebird box.  Lirope is planted below this wallto help edge the grass lawn.


This oakleaf hydrangea is called "Alice" and is about 5 years old now.  This time of year, the sun rises just over the top.  A newer hydrangea next to it on the left is called Pinky Winky.  It blooms after Alice is done.  Both these hydrangea add to the public screen from the city street.


The Japanese maple is over 30 years old as it was in this location when we moved here in 1986.  I know the house was built in 1978 so it could be that old.  The base is 30" with the main trunk at 20" this year.  I keep it trimmed all around and looks like a bonsai tree when all the leaves are off!  It is the only location for Christmas lights in recent years so we can view from our picture window.  This is also our front brick patio area below a second terraced area.  The entrance to our house is level with only one step up.



View of the second terraced area from the front patio.  The English ivy was brought here from my childhood home in Virginia and I must keep it trimmed a couple times a season to hug the rocks.  The hostas used to be under several large oak trees that were removed about 20 years ago from the front yard because their location threatened the house and they grew very big!  Now the hostas have too much sun and need trimmed by late summer for a fresh regrowth.  The pink dogwood is my 3rd attempt and now in its 3rd year looking good and strong now.  We also planted a row of native redbuds along the north side of the house and they are casting a nice amount of shade finally after about 25 years growth.  We started them from 6" saplings. I love the creeping thyme inbetween the patio bricks which self-seeds and blooms.  It is made to walk on by staying low and has a emits a frangrance when doing so!


The north side of the house has a nice sidewalk between the terraced plant area against the concrete foundation of the walk-out lower level of the house and the narrow edge of the property line.  This area has lily-of-the-valley, native wild hydrangea, sedum, hostas, and vinca.  The redbuds continue along to the bottom of the property line to the city street.  The sidewalk is planned as a path for rain water to go and ends in a rain garden below keeping water away from the building and used by the plants.  On the right, the sidewalk leads to the back patio and continuesa the length of the house into the main terraced gardens.


Part of the rain garden has daylilies and Solomen Seal plants between a metal half cattle feed ring which is used for plant muclh collection and use.  The other side is a hammock area under a grove of redbuds.  There is a variety of shade plants here that I likely will show in mid-summer as it is just starting to come up now.


Here you can see the redbud grove hammock area at the edge of the sidewalk to the center top of the photo.  The rain garden is below the corner of the sidewalk as it turns along the back side of the house.  There are lovely flower boxes built for herbs, annual petunias, gladiolas, coleus, and creeping Jenny to enjoy along the path.  The other side has bordering lirope which makes it easy to mow the lawn keeping grass clipping where they belong.  There is a nice concrete patio and steps along this area and a new graveled fire chiminea area that goes to the edge of the carport above. 


You can see the steepness of the two pie-shaped lots from this view taken in from of the garden shed at the low point of the concrete steps.  It does go lower!  These are our main vegetable gardens, all terraced.  I don't know how many separate gaardens to count but there are four large 6'x20' gardens, a couple 10'x10' areas, a 6'x14' raised bed along the carport, and many smaller terraces in between.  The carport is to the left at the top with a lower driveway to the right.  In between and much lower is my "Happy Place" trellis swing area where I can view the large part of the backyard.  On the south property edge, not shown, is a 22 year old lilac hedge  that I planted from 6" saplings.  The frangrance is wonderful throughout the yard when the south breeze catches the abundant blooms this time of year!



I have a Native Garden.  The slender mountain mist, blue mist, yarrow, rose verbena, New England aster, smooth aster, dwarf larkspur, houry puccoon, wild hyacinth, cone flowers, aromic aster, and poppy mallow come back every year.  The nigela  aka Love in a Mist and chicory come back to join the natives even though not Missouri natives. Haney's poppies just show up where they want.  They are all certainly welcome!  




The view from my garden swing aka My Happy Place.



With my garden swing on the right and the carport on the left, you can see again how the yard slopes down from the city street up by the electric pole.  Between the swing and the carport makes a great location for more terraced garden areas with a useful drainway in between that directs rainwater away from the house into the gardens. On the left is a good place for my exotic lilies.  I had tried many other plants for this area but finally decided it is the best place where deer cannot easily get to my favorite lilies.  They can eat the common daylilies aka orange or ditch lilies that are located in the areas at the edge of the yard.  On the right are my two newest raised beds for strawberries.



A closer view of my Garden Swing.  There are coral oneysuckle growing on the left side of the trellis.  I had wild honeysuckle  growing on the right side for many years but removed it a couple years ago as it is too invasive and dominated the much desired native coral homeysuckle.  On the right is a steep sloped hill filled with the common orange daylilies.  A few surprize lilies and some allium pop up randomly very early in the spring in this bed.  On the lower right are several lemon balm plants that edge the "daylily hill."  On the right is our cat's garden with a large catnip plant and a small rocky slope of cat grass that he loves!  To the immediate left of the swing is another tree stump that has been made into a Gnome Home.  The area has a variety of succulants in between the rocks.  There is a nice pink hardy hibiscus that is a special surprise because I planted it from some free seeds I got from a garden show and didn't expect much.  It comes back every year and is very showy!  It is in the far upper left of the photo below and just starting.  That prickly pear cactus on the right has recently been replanted with the others in the front yard as it grew too large here and makes it hard to play in this area with its threatening needles!



Closer view of the Gnome Home next to my Garden Swing with the variety of succulants, the hardy hibiscus, and an Autumn sedum to the left of the tree stump.


Some of my Garden Friends around the Gnome Home.



Closeup of a coral honeysuckle bloom that is abundantly growing on my Garden Swing trellis.  



View of the front patio area of our house where I enjoy my first coffee or tea of the day from the bistro chairs and table every morning with Bobi Kitty on my lap.  From here I can see the bird feeder areas and front yard view before I walk around the yard, usually in my PJ's, to make garden plans for the day.



This is a Dutchman's Pipe vine bloom located in the backyard along the edge of the yard by the city street growing on an old cedar tree stump.  It is the host plant to the Pipevine Swallowtail butterfly.  It grows abundantly here surrounded by a ditch filled with Joe Pye plants which are all Missouri natives that the butterflies love.  I do throw a lot of discarded plants in this long city ditch so I am pleased to see many of them take over the less desireable weeds.  They are all mostly welcome but we do some maintenence a couple times a year to remove tree saplings, thistle, and crown vetch just trying to keep these problems out of the yard.


 

This is the tree stump we left from a too large cedar tree that was removed years ago on our property line.  The Dutchman's Pipe vine likes it here. I have a bunch of native spiderwort that I encourage at the lawn's edge.  I have several other natives I enocourage along this edge mixed with the original iris that came with the house and were transplanted to help hold up the very steep ditch along with the appropriatly named ditch daylilies.  There are also smooth asters, speedwell, shasta daisies, monarda, and a large amount of lamb's ear between the ditch and the yard lawn.  We also plantsed a row of Stella De Ora daylilies along with more lirope to edge the lawn up to the sidewalk where the only large oak tree we have kept shades much of the backyard lawn.


There are dozens of the Dutchman's Pipevine Swallowtail catepillars on the vine by Memorial Weekend!


Another view of the Native Garden which shows the reason why I keep the chicory at this prominent corner...because the deer love to munch on it and seem to be satisfied to stay away from my exotic lillies and strawberries that are harder to get to that you can see in the upper right side of the photo.  They also like some of my other native plants along this easy sidewalk path and I cover with cages for a month or so until they grow bigger.  The chicory seem to do very well with the deers' trimming as it gets bushier and has more blooms later.  I like to think that the deer know not to take too much so they can come back for more!  You see this plant a lot along the highways that have right-of-ways mowed with its beautiful light blue flowers.  It would grow over 5' tall if not trimmed!



One of the four front yard trees that didn't get cut all the way down but was left for the woodpeckers.  A few years later I decided to add some whimsey to the landscape to make me smile and enjoy.  This was the first  Fairy Tree area.  It is on the path to the bird feeders so I can walk by it everyday.


The Fairy Tree friends close up 



This year I started a new whimsical area under my favorite pink dogwood tree several feet from my front patio to enjoy.  It is a Winery with some new Gnomes taking advantage of the spirits.  At this location I can keep a close eye on them from my bistro area so the rascals don't hassle the fairies at the nearby Fairy Tree!  I may also join them of an evening and have a glass or two of wine my self!

Sunday, October 9, 2022

2022 Early Spring Enjoying Regular Visits from Our Granddaughter and My Brother

 For the past year, we have enjoyed our granddaughter in our home for five days every ten days.  This has been possible mostly because her family (my daughter) moved closer to us.  The first four years had visits frequent but not as often because of the travel distence.  So this early spring began with Kayleen's graduation from pre-school.


Kayleen was a good helper with Keith and I at Settlers Village in Wheatland where Keith and I do the gardens as our volunteer project with the Missouri Master Gardeners, Hickory County Chapter.  This is my 10th year and I have earned the Emeritus status.  This means I will retain membership with benefits for life without having to put in the required 20 hours volunteer work or 6 hours continuing education.  Keith has a couple more years to go and we likely will continue until at least then.  He is this project's manager and I help out as needed but he does much more for now.  Kayleen helps out but is mostly there for the donut breaks and playground nearby!






Our first garden priority has always been our own landscape and gardens which we began shortly after we moved to Hermitage in 1986.  It has been a lot of work and it shows but for us it was always something we loved to do and make new plans every year.  Early Spring is the busiest.  We are quickly rewarded with new growth and that motivates us even more!


Haney's Double Poppies are always volunteers.  They self-seed each year since neighbor Clifford Haney gave them to me sometime in the 1990s.  Since he has passed away, they are a reminder to me of what a good gardening neighbor is as he had the best garden around and was always generous to share.


I am so happy to finally have pink dogwood blooming in my front yard!  This is my third attempt to grow one and it is in it's 5th year now.  Not all plant projects have been successful but we keep trying and mostly have winners.


Peonies are one of the oldest plants in our yard.  They are a good sign of Spring and are at their best by Memorial Weekend.


Our house came with lots of yellow and purple irises mostly from the local high school selling them back in the 1980s for a fund raiser showing their school colors; The Hornets.  I had since moved them all to the edges of the backyard along the street and started new iris gardens with these fancy ones.


Gooseberries are plentiful in the wild around here in SW Missouri.  Many years ago, we dug up a few bushes on the old homesite in Avery of our former neighbor, Goldena Trollenger, and planted them in our yard.  They are thriving and I can get at least two large pies each year from the early spring pickings.


My Missouri Native Garden is beginning to show up in early Spring.  I have a variety of asters, chicory, rose verbina, cone flowers, salvia, blue mist, slender mountain mist, yarrow, purple poppy mallow, and several others that surprise me as I'm always adding and forgetting about what I transplant!  The blue flower in front was gifted to me likely by a little bird many years ago and it likes it here very well.  It is nigella aka Love in a Mist. Who wouldn't keep such a beauty?  


I love to see the coral honeysuckle (Missouri Native) bloom on the trellis over my garden swing in early spring.  It means I must set out my hummingbird feeders because they will be here soon if they aren't here already!


About the same time as the ruby-throated hummingbirds arrive, the orioles aren't far behind.  Sometimes they are first seen trying to get some sweetness from the hummingbird's feeder.  They also like the suet feeder.  It isn't long before I put out their special feeder that has the sweetened water, orange halves, and grape jelly they love so much.  I think I may spoil them a little much but they bring me such joy and a lovey song.


Not to be left out but a rare find at least a couple times a day in the early Spring are the Summer Tanager.  This is the female.  The male is a bright red; smaller than a cardinal.  I know they raise their family nearby.  They are a little shy.


We always get at least 1-2 broods of bluebirds in the box in the front yard which is easily viewed.  Some years we get 3-4 broods!


By the time Kayllen stays early in the Spring, we have our first crop of strawberries that she helps pick and shares with Grandpa.


For as long as I can remember (at least mid-1990s), my brother Ed rides his Harley from Iowa to visit a few days around Memorial Weekend.   We always do the same things and sometimes add something different now and then.  He always like to see out Pomme de Terre Dam outlet at full force in the early Spring from the rains.  Some years the lake is quite high and it is a big show!



He also likes to go to Lake of the Ozarks which is a short drive.  The Bagnell Damm is another big show when the water is let out from the Spring rains raising the lake too high.  Ed always likes to stop and check out the coins at Richard's Relic Shack on the Bagnell Dam Strip.  Richard is getting pretty old now and was not at the store with his little old dog, Elizabeth this year.  


Another regular stop before we leave Lake of the Ozarks is Andy's Frozen Custard.  Everyone leaves with a smile on their face!



This year was another trip to Ha Ha Tonka State Park for a walk to the Spring (in the Springtime, of course) and a walk to the Castle Ruins.  It is a good way to get exercise after all the eating we do when brother Ed comes to visit.  We also walk below the dam at our Pomme de Terre River Trail.




The Castle Ruins at Ha Ha Tonka never get too old to see!


One of our favorite restaurants is floating on Pomme de Terre Lake near our home.  The 3-mile trail is just across the road at the bottom of the dam outlet.



One of the newer events brother Ed likes when he comes is the car races at Lucus Oil Speedway 5 miles from our house. It's been around about 10 years or so.  Everyone wears ear plugs!



The grand finale of his trip to visit us is a drive to Springfield where a regional car show takes place every Memorial Weekend.  This is what he and his friends do even in Iowa...several times a week, I understand!  There's even a couple of his Iowa friends here at this show.  I come to find out that this nice lady and I used to work together at Harris Drug in Onawa Iowa in 1972!  She remembered me!  She and her husband regularly spend time with my brother and his wife at the car shows in Iowa with their car club.





Golden Correl is one of my brother's favorite restaurants so he treated us and my daughter's family to dinner in Springfield the day before he returned to Iowa.  See you again next Early Spring, if not before!