Introduction

Introduction: Mapping Out a Plan for the Rest of My Life and Enjoying the Journey

My Golden Years are an extension of the life I have lived up to retirement which began on December 1, 2011. I have organized this blog to include the top ten relevant topics shown below in the right side column in General Topics. Just click on one and you will see all that I have written on that topic. Click on the Most Current tab for chronological order of all entries.

I have addressed each topic in no particular order other than what is currently on my mind on the day I am posting. I started each topic by describing where I was when I began this blog and then exploring the possibilities of progression and any goals that I would like to meet. After that, I write about the path to reach that goal as it happens. Sometimes I just write about what is happening now.

I welcome any comments and questions either on this blog or email as I travel these paths and hope to share my growth with interested persons who may find some common elements in their own path to the rest of their life. I hope to use my skills as an appraiser for nearly 30 years to continue to observe different perspectives on a subject and reconcile into a conclusion that is of value to me. Please join me whenever you like. Email notice of new posts is no longer available so just bookmark the address.

The Blog Archive tool is helpful to find posts by year. Of most importance to me is the confidence developed in my intuitive skills over the years and it is that part of my character I am trusting to define value in my life. I believe change can be good and I can be enriched by believing in my true self using my intuition. The analytical part of my life no longer has a financial grip and I can let go of what absolutely made sense at the time in favor of what feels right now. I have done a lot of work since this blog began in 2011 and I hope you will join me as I explore this approach in My Golden Years.


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Friday, May 29, 2026

My Gardens, My World - Front Yard; Tier 1 & Driveway Areas

 


The front yard is the main window to My Gardens, My World. I enjoy the view from the bistro set just outside the front door.  From here I can observe the sunrise as it illuminates the terraced front lawn and begins my day. Bobi Kitty has joined me for over 15 years and it is where I was when we first met in early June.  I have no Idea where he came from but estimated he was only about 5-6 weeks old. He came up to me every morning to sit on my lap; then I fed him. He decided to stay and became my garden kitty for the season. He chose to come inside when the weather got cold and was let outside whenever he wanted.  The following spring he was shot by a neighbor and lost a hind leg.  I took care of all the vet bills and got him a collar.  This 3-legged American Bobtail belongs in my world now.  He is a loving, grateful cat who stays very close to the house outside but is inside most of the time.  He is my joy and comfort.



The front entrance to the house is a morning sun area that is a good location for potted plants.  This year I like dark red and lavender geraniums here. The aloe vera plant is very large and is wheeled to the lower level inside each fall when the weather gets cold. I have had it for about ten years now when it was much smaller and part of a huge plant; a gift from my maid-of-honor of our wedding, Jolene Hamblen in Iowa.The low level ground cover to the left (winter creeper) keeps it's dark green color over winter but needs to be trimmed twice a year or it will take over more than I want.  There is creeping thyme between the bricks that I planted about 15 years ago and trimmed up a lot last year to prepare for reseeding soon.



This Japanese Maple must be at least 45 years old as it was well established when we bought this 1978-built house in 1986.  I keep it trimmed below the roof and off the sidewalk.  The birds love to come to it all times of the year especially when the feeders are put up on the eave for hummingbirds and orioles.  It is covered with Christmas lights to enjoy through the picture window in season.  Below it is a hosta that blooms purple flowers. 



There are additional potted plants along the base of the English ivy covered wall with sedum on top.  This is a lantana annual plant that the butterflies love. The creeping thyme has purple or white blooms and tare a low growing plant with a wonderful scent when walked on.  It can be mowed late in the summer or fall if they get too tall and spindly.  This actually releases the seed to continue for the next season but the main plants live through the winter.  I am adding new seed for the first time soon to refresh after the initial planting about 25 years ago.



Crimson Flame Geranium 



View of both front yard tiers from the bistro table at sunrise



View of front yard patio from the northeast property line looking southeast.



View of the front yard looking northeast from the house corner along the redbud tree property line.



View of front yard patio from the driveway at house corner looking toward redbud tree property line.  The patio brick was originally dry-set laid in the late 1990s by a contractor, David Spotlla.  I had obtained the free brick on a job site of a razed 100 year old building in Mt. Vernon, Missouri.  I have replaced a couple dozen bricks with new brick as they crumbled.



View of the front yard from the corner of tier1 and the driveway.



View of the tier 1 lawn area bordering the driveway toward the house front.  There is an Autumn Joy Sedum and a Russian Sage along this edge.  The lawn was refurbished this spring with a seed called Midnight Black Fescue.



This corner of the front yard has two lavender plants and a heather that come back most years.  I have replanted new lavender plants several times as they seem to do well for about three years before replacing.  I have a geranium here now too.  This is the second year of the heather which should bloom a bright purple again.  English ivy covers the whole wall but I keep it trimmed to expose some of the rock.  There is another hosta that blooms purple flowers in summer at the corner.  Also at this corner are pink surprise lilies aka naked ladies that will pop up in late summer.



More of the view of the patio and tier 1 wall which has solar lights.



Below the pink dogwood tree are annual impatiens after spring bulbs of red tulips and a variety of hyacinths were done blooming.  



SunPatiens Tropical Salmon and New Guinea Magenta tolerate some sun and are hardier than regular impatiens.




Red tulips have come and gone by mid-May.  These bulbs stay in the ground and are over 20 years old now.  They have been divided and spread out a few years ago from the original.  There are many random small grape hyacinths and crocus in this area as well as between the redbud tree row ad lawn.  Love the early color to welcome spring!



This corner of the rock wall is in the shade of the pink dogwood and the redbud trees.  It is a popular watering place for all kinds of birds and critters including Bobi Kitty who likes laying in the cool grass nearby overseeing his kingdom.  Squirrels, bunnies, turtles, deer, turkey, and foxes have also been seen drinking.



Other popular spots are the bird feeders both for seed and suet on the other corner and the feeders hanging on the eave which can be viewed and enjoyed from the patio and through the picture window.



In the middle of the front property line are the driveway gardens and the mailbox area.  There are three main tiers with at least seven levels.  The larger and lowest level is the alternate driveway and main access to the backyard down some steps behind the fence.  There is a big drop off behind the obelisk which is on the side of the carport.  This view from the street highlights a blue ballon plant and a blue speedwell in front along with the yellowing blooming sedum.  There is a little bit of a creeping juniper remaining under the mailbox that is probably 30 years old and once covered this whole front area next to the street.  



There are three levels to the first tier along the main driveway from the obelisk to the street.  Gladiolas are all along the wall between the first tier and second tier and the rest filled with dahlias.  I left these bulbs in the ground last year and to my surprise they did come back likely because this is a protected area with the wall.  There have been many different plants over the years in this location and I like to make changes.  But now I have mostly plants that come back each year.  The next level below the yellow yarrow I have new Shasta daisies with purple and red petunias (annuals) which are highly scented. The next lower level (in front) also has Shasta daisies in the middle but red Echinacea and blue ballon plants on either side.  Can you see the red, white, and blue theme going on here? 



The view from the obelisk and carport is breathtaking!  Morning glories and hyacinth bean vines will be growing on the obelisk soon. The Belles of Ireland and yellow yarrow fill the rest of this area.



The Belles of Ireland are self seeding and have these bell blooms growing all along the main stems.


 
Yellow Yarrow



Panama Red Echinacea are new this year as I wanted a red bloom all summer that comes back each year.



White Shasta Daisies are new this year although I had a much taller version here before and wanted them shorter.  



Blue Ballon plants do very well here and bloom all season.  The one I planted several years ago below the mailbox is very showy.  They need to be dead-headed almost everyday to keep producing but it is so worth it as I walk to the mailbox.



The blue speed well has been here many years and is also very showy next to the mailbox in the lower tier.



View of the driveway gardens from the lowest level that can be used as an additional driveway.  It was once all gravel but is mowed as grass and weeds took over.  The plants seen here are self-seeding, multicolor four-o'clocks that I allow to grow in this one spot.  It would take over if I didn't remove the wayward seedlings early.  The lower tier has the multicolor dahlias with the red gladiolas behing them.  I have to aggressively trim down the dahlias so the gladiolas can be seen from this side.  At the rear end of this garden below the obelisk are some Asiatic lilies about ready to bloom. There is a big drop off next to the old mailbox with is used to store some extra clippers to have handy as there are wonderful flowers to cut here all season!



The dahlias are just beginning to bloom.



Native coral honeysuckle grow on the lattice which surrounds a garden swing that faces towards the back yard gardens.  I had severely trimmed up this vine last year as there was much dead wood inside as it covered the lattice.  I also got two more vines separated and replanted nearby.  This is the first place I see hummingbirds in the spring and know when to put out the feeders.




Full view of the lowest level boarding the city street with the property line to the left.  It is very steep behind the fenced area. We had high clay content dirt loads dumped here to level with the street and gravel on top in the early years.  This was the last of the 22 loads (river bottom dirt) as most of the loads went to the back yard accessing through here with a dump truck and tractor to level.  We got our dirt and gravel from local Laurel Pearson and the tractor work by Don Ginnings to put it in the terraces as we built them.  Gras and weed have covered the gravel over the years to where we just mow it.  The fence was built to provide privacy from the street of our spacious gardens in the back yard.  The lattice portion has some hyacinth bean vines and morning glories to cover which die back after season.  The open part has a stairway to the back yard.  This year we are starting some boysenberry plants at the base of the fence on the left.  I hope they do well.  The fence portion parallel to the street open up to access and load our kayaks as we can back up our pickup or trailer easily.
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Steps from the lowest level driveway to the back yard gardens.  Storm took out some of the lattice work a couple years ago as well as removing a beautiful fragrant white flowering vine that was here for many years.  It is unlikely that it will all be replaced.



This is the southwest property line as viewed from the street.  It shows a steep incline which was what the whole yard was like when we moved here in 1986.  Most of this property line has a lilac bush row from the fence area to the last terraced walls near the bottom of the hill.  I planted 20 lilac 6" slips in 2000 which was the year my daughter graduated from high school.  They had a major refurbishing this past spring and did not bloom much mostly due to weather conditions.  I expect a second lite bloom in the fall.  


There are also some old irises, day lilies, vinca, and a crepe myrtle bush between the lilacs and the kayak storage.  This spring I improved a step-down access from the backyard to this boundary where the lilacs begin.


Since I started this post, we had a lot of rain that brought out many of the blooms that did not show a short time ago when I took the photos.  I just had to end this post with these beautiful gladiolas that were not in bloom yesterday!




Monday, May 25, 2026

My Gardens, My World - Front Yard; Tier 2

 


Today is Memorial Day.  By this day every year for 40 years, I have completed the most part of gardening and landscape maintenance.  It is a time to relax and reflect on the past in addition to remembering those who gave their lives so we can all be free to choose.  There will always be work to be done as I choose to make plans each day. I walk around to observe and prioritize tasks at daybreak most days in growing season. Along with my garden bag of tools, I carry my memories with me, pull a few weeds as I walk (which is highly therapeutic), and look to the future in my ever changing world. I pray in gratitude, ask for guidance, and praise God who is my Lord and Creator.



This post begins at the top of the hill where our half acre property meets the city street and borders our neighbor to the northeast. We are in the city limits and located on a cul-de-sac with two other neighbors visible from the front. This upper tier has native rock walls on two sides that are dry-set which we built within the first couple years.  The front yard had the first of 22 truck loads of river bottom dirt brought in to terrace our lot over the next several years after we moved here in 1986.  

Some of the first plants that still come back every year are peonies, lirope, sedum, clematis, English ivy, and juniper.  Other successful plants in the above photo that come back every year include Autumn Joy sedum, several succulents, coneflowers, Russian sage, blue salvia, irises, jonquils, daffodils, phlox, and Oak Leaf hydrangeas.  This is a full sun area after we removed four large trees about 20 years ago.  Lots of plant changes from a shaded front yard to full sun!



Clematis and Succulents


Clematis Blooms


Newly refurbished decorative rock and all property fences stained in 2025-6. The city water main is located here and we added a concrete access.  Plants here include a short blue salvis, several phlox which bloom early, and the Autumn Joy sedum which blooms in the fall. A variety of succulents are on the right side of the concrete access.



I named this turtle Pavel after my Czech cousin.  I purchased him shortly after my cousin found me through this blog in 2015.  We have been in contact regularly by email and twice in person ever since!



More of the refurbished decorative rock which leads to the bluebird house.  There are hybrid oak leaf hydrangeas on either side that bloom at different times.  Other plants include irises, daffodils, jonquils, peonies, and Russian sage here.



Pavel the Turtle oversees this garden area and greets me as I enter it on a lower right incline.  The peonies have already bloomed and gone which seems early as I always expect them closer to Memorial Day. The sedum is in full yellow bloom now.  The lirope at the base of the rock walls will have a blue spike flower in late summer.  There is a large tall blue salvia that is just starting to bloom and two purple Russian sages.  A tall pink phlox will bloom soon at the wall high corner.  There are also several coneflower plants and all will stay blooming summer and fall.



Russian Sage



Blooming yellow sedum grows well in the rock walls and as a ground cover in many areas.  When the blooms fade, the plants are spindly and transplant well or can be mowed. They always come back.



This is the northeast corner of our property.  The house number is easy for emergency medical assistance to see as well as anyone else trying to find us.  It is a prominent display for our American flag.  Below the flag are native prickly pear cactus which are just starting to bloom in the above photo on this Memorial Day.  There are some iris and a variety of succulents  in this area that my 100' water hose can barely reach. Along the street were planted six junipers about 30 years ago; only two are remaining and have lost all the lower branches.  Just like the corner fence was built for privacy from all the neighbor activity across the street, so too were the junipers planted originally.  Two new junipers were planted two years ago in the gap made by the ones removed.  They are growing fast and will soon fill in enough so the remaining original ones can be removed when they die.  




Prickly Pear Cactus are starting to bloom.  



Prickly Pear Cactus in full bloom (last year's photo)



Violet Wood Sorel has now completed it's spring blooming



One of the few remaining fancy irises named SwingTown that I transplanted from a larger garden in the backyard that had gotten burned out last year destroying dozens.



This is the corner of the wall of Tier 2 where it meets Tier 1 under a white dogwood tree.  I have a butterfly shaped paver in between ajuga and sedum ground cover.  This is next to a tree stump we left for woodpeckers and I had decorated as a fairy tree until last year.  There are some blackberry iris around the tree.


Also at this corner between tiers is where we buried our first cat who died in 1988.  St. Francis watches over him.  There is a couple of steps up at this corner so I pass by here often.



This is what remains of the old woodpecker tree at this corner between the tiers.  In the hanging planter this year are purple and red petunias and calibrachoa.



Below the woodpecker tree area is the row of redbud trees we planted over 30 years ago. They still provide much shade on this northeast side of the property although the branches are up high.  This species lives 30-40 years typically.  Along this row in the front yard are coral bell plants.


Coral Bells have a wire cage around them to protect from deer and keep the flower stems off the ground.





There have been many pileated woodpecker families over the years and this female is pointing in the direction of her woodpecker tree.  I enjoy watching a variety of birds especially in my front yard where I provide black oil sunflower seeds and suet.  They are always welcome in My Gardens, My World.