Introduction

Introduction: Mapping Out a Plan for the Rest of My Life and Enjoying the Journey

My Golden Years are an extension of the life I have lived up to retirement which began on December 1, 2011. I have organized this blog to include the top ten relevant topics shown below in the right side column in General Topics. Just click on one and you will see all that I have written on that topic. Click on the Most Current tab for chronological order of all entries.

I have addressed each topic in no particular order other than what is currently on my mind on the day I am posting. I started each topic by describing where I was when I began this blog and then exploring the possibilities of progression and any goals that I would like to meet. After that, I write about the path to reach that goal as it happens. Sometimes I just write about what is happening now.

I welcome any comments and questions either on this blog or email as I travel these paths and hope to share my growth with interested persons who may find some common elements in their own path to the rest of their life. I hope to use my skills as an appraiser for nearly 30 years to continue to observe different perspectives on a subject and reconcile into a conclusion that is of value to me. Please join me whenever you like. Email notice of new posts is no longer available so just bookmark the address.

The Blog Archive tool is helpful to find posts by year. Of most importance to me is the confidence developed in my intuitive skills over the years and it is that part of my character I am trusting to define value in my life. I believe change can be good and I can be enriched by believing in my true self using my intuition. The analytical part of my life no longer has a financial grip and I can let go of what absolutely made sense at the time in favor of what feels right now. I have done a lot of work since this blog began in 2011 and I hope you will join me as I explore this approach in My Golden Years.


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Tuesday, May 12, 2026

My Gardens, My World - Around the House; Backside


The Princess Project

What better way to begin my garden journal in its 40th year than with the completed and  final major project?  Today is Mother's Day 2026.  I had wrote about The Princess in previous posts which I inherited from my mother by way of her maternal uncle. One year ago, I took the 40 pound bronze sculpture to be appraised at Grant's Farm in St. Louis, Missouri during the PBS Antique Roadshow.  It had been in a dark place since my mother's death in 1993 and in my childhood home under the dark stairway since her uncle's death in 1957.  It is here now in its final resting place in the light watching over me in My Gardens, My World.  I have added a Bohemian garden flag representing my heritage with my parent's homeland, Czechoslovakia.  I have also included two old glass lamps my father had found and liked but never used in our home in Virginia.  I will likely add other memorabilia to enjoy this space close to my heart and home.





The concrete steps in the above photo are the last concrete pour from our mixer that has been instrumental in so many landscape projects over the years.  The first project was a concrete pad for a dog pen shortly after we moved here in 1986.  After the Britney hunting dog named Toffee was gone, the pad served as a foundation for a garden shed.  The plants seen here include creeping Jenny (yellow-green) as ground cover that comes back every year in the stone block planters.  I buy a variety of annual coleus that grows well in this partially shaded area. Closer to The Princess are tall pots that I buy different annuals for each year.  Now it has sweet potato vine (yellow-green) and purple petunia plants for the fill & spill with red geraniums for the thrill aspect.  There are also the same petunia and geranium in the hanging planter on the wall behind The Princess.  The second tier stone block wall is a sitting area to view the gardens and enjoy a fire in the chiminea.  There are long roasting forks hanging on the wall alongside the magic hour (sun/moon) metal wall art. The Princess sets on a stone block pillar I built that has a time capsule sealed inside with childhood memorabilia.  The stone block wall at the top of the steps contains a garden in full sun.  There are two blueberry bushes to the rear which should produce this year hopefully as it is their third year.  I have several native rose poppy mallow vines as ground cover in this boxed garden along with spring bulbs such as crocus, tulips, daffodils, and hyacinths.  I keep a clay saucer with marbles scattered here and there around the landscape to retain water for pollinators and butterflies that visit.



I will continue with all the separate garden and landscape projects immediately Around the House but this post is about the Backside only.  The above photo is the southwest corner.  The house and a large oak tree shade the backside of the house area morning to mid-day but this corner gets little shade except for the blueberries against the wall that are more protected. It is easy for me to dump used coffee grinds from the above deck to keep their soil acidic. I can water all of it by standing on the deck above at the end of the carport. The rainwater from the roof gutters lead away from the house into a separate raised garden. 


This is the view of the south corner looking north along the backside of the house.  We have a full walkout lower level with a sidewalk between the stone block planters and the grass yard.  Along the sidewalk we planted lirope (monkey grass) which has a blue spike flower in late summer.


View of backside of house from middle of center steps off patio looking south.  This area is mostly shaded from the oak tree and house.  The coleus do very well here.


View of backside of house from middle of center steps off patio  looking north.  Two concrete pots on either side of the steps contain large clear and rose quartz crystals obtained from Arkansas. This is a full afternoon sun area past the water hydrant.  It was planted last year with gladiolas and dahlias which should be dug up and stored every winter but were left in and came back this year. I have planted coleus this year closer to the steps as the oak tree has gotten larger over the years and now mostly shades this portion.  We also plant four different herbs near the north end by the shop door which makes it easy to cut for cooking use. Cilantro is self-seeding, sage usually comes back most years but basil and rosemary need new plants each year.  At the corner are lemon thyme and chives.

Blooming Sage

Lemon thyme & blooming chives with a drainage area in between from a pipe laid under the sidewalk.


Blooming dahlias come in a variety of colors



Full view of backside of house close to noon in mid-May.  The large oak tree casting the shadow in the above photo moves the shade over the deck as the sun sets in late afternoon.

Next post will describe the area Around the House; Northside.








Wednesday, May 6, 2026

2026 My Gardens, My World

 My Gardens, My World

It is the first week of May.  There's a full moon to start the month and it will also be full on the last day.  In April, the ArtemisII mission went to the moon and back in 10 days and showed us the dark side for the first time in history. Closer to home, the dark side of the earth is reflected in it's people who continue to support the corrupt government currently in power and the source of the present darkness.  On this earth, I must seek a refuge from this great darkness.  My garden has increasingly become my world until the light comes back as I know it will!

People and counties that had once liked us and worked with us no longer respect us.  Trump has surrounded himself with self-serving people like himself that do whatever he wants.  He has challenged our system of checks and balances in most every negative way possible. Trump continues to prove that he does not have the American peoples's best interest in mind as our leader through his actions. He lies while making his own truths. Yes, Trump is not the first politician to do this but he has done the most harm in our 250 year history.  People are suffering because of his unnecessary actions and executive orders.

The current Trump administration has become even more outrageous and bold this past year.  Pope Leo XIV characterized Trump's threats against the people of Iran as "truly unacceptable." This American-born pontiff issued a rare direct rebuke after Trump threatened on Easter Sunday to destroy "a whole civilization" if Iran didn't meet his deadline to open the Strait of Hormuz. Following the threats, Pope Leo urged global citizens to contact political leaders to work towards peace and emphasized that the intentional targeting of civilian infrastructure cannot be morally justified.  While he later praised a temporary ceasefire announced by Trump, Pope Leo continued to condemn the "idolatry of power" and "tyrants" who manipulate religion for military gain. Pope Leo's outspoken stance triggered a public feud.  There has recently been a turn in leaders standing up to Trump which is also reflected in Trump's historically low poll numbers. I am thankful for a pope that is both bold and courageous enough to stand up for peace and for mercy.

The phrase "tranquillity of order" comes from Augustine of Hippo, especially in his work The City of God. By this, Augustine means that true peace is not simply the absence of conflict, but a state where everything is rightly ordered: where our hearts are aligned with God, our relationships are just, and each part of life is in harmony with its proper place.

The artist Banksy invites us to question authority, to reflect on the cost of conflict, and to consider whether true peace can ever be imposed by force... or whether it must begin, as all lasting peace does, within the human heart first.

The reflection of the dark side of the American people continued with King Charles on his recent epic trip to America.  His calm, common sense and dry humor cut through as he torched Trump's entire presidency in front of congress and the whole world.  He defended NATO, Ukraine, the rule of law, the climate, and free trade while Trump has spent every day in office shredding all of it.  Both political parties gave King Charles a standing ovation after standing ovation.  A foreign king had to come to Washington to remind America what real leadership looks like. The speech, marking the semiquincentennial year of the Declaration of Independence, emphasized the enduring UK-US partnership in addressing global uncertainty, environmental challenges, and technological advancements highlighting that Magna Carta principles continue to form the foundation of our shared liberty. I am grateful that King Charles words were accepted so widely as even Trump appeared to admire him and respect King Charles; if not his power.  "Diplomacy is the art of telling people to go to hell in such a way that they ask for directions." ~ Anonymous.  Well played King Charles!

2026 is my 15th Year of Retirement.  It is an appropriate time to look back to 2011 when I started this blog to prepare for retirement as stated in the Introduction using my intuition to live my best life to make and meet goals for the rest of my life.  It has become a good platform for me to share what is important to me at the time with interested viewers who may find some commonality.  As of today, there has been nearly 85,000 views and many comments sent to me privately.  I decided from the beginning to use this site as more of a personnal journal to share rather than seeking the marketability aspect offered by goggle to make money.  There has never been and likely never will be ads.  I am free to express myself and that has been very therapeutic for my mental health.  Goggle eventually quit bothering me to show me how to make money by doing this.  There are plenty of tools available and help to change directions if I wanted.

If you are a follower, thank you for joining me on my path.  Anyone is welcome!  For all viewers that found me by googgling a topic, I hope you eventually found what you were looking for.  Keep seeking and growing.  At age 72, I am still seeking and growing.  The path is narrowing and I am slower now.  My health is good.  My happiness is what I make it.  My prosperity is comfortable.     

So Spring 2026 is again time for hope and renewal.  Travel plans have been cancelled for this season due to my husband's recent health issues.  I have become more of a caregiver since his stroke in October 2025.  I pray he is improving.  I am optimistic as I continue to create my world around my yard as a gardener.  There is a 40 year history here in Hermitage, Missouri since we moved to this house in 1986 and created the gardens and landscape. I will remember and consider successes and failures as I move forward. I have found much joy this year staying close to home, my priority.  

I will assess my life at this point and write about where I am on this path.  I will begin with what is closest to me and occupies much of my time - My Gardens!  I will begin looking at them in more detail and write about the individual spaces we have created in our 40 year old landscape.  At this point, I have no idea how many posts it will take to create this updated gardening journal but I'm pretty sure my attention and efforts will include the months of May and June as this is the best time for gardening.  

Welcome to My Gardens, My World!  First Turtle of 2026 in my yard came up to me to be fed a treat and be petted.  It still had the number "7" on its shell which I marked last year.                  

Turtles are my Spirit Animal!

                        Patience, endurance, protection.  
                         Slow and steady wins the race!