My Best Friend Daffney

Of all the pets we have had, Daffney was by far the sweetest member of our family.  Her mother, Sassy, was also sweet but with a large measure of sass, of course!  Sassy was only 17 months old when her firstborn, Daffney, arrived in Sarah's bedroom closet. Between the two of them, there were 23 puppies born.  So much joy in the house!  So many pictures in the photo albums.  So many good memories and fun!  We were blessed.

Sassy and Daffney were best friends until Sassy passed away October 2009 just a couple weeks short of her 15th birthday.  Daffney passed away a couple years later on December 3, 2011 at 15 years and 8 months.  It was good that Keith and I were able to spend all our time with each of them during their final days in our home.  It was a very, very sad time but peaceful and natural to be with our best friends to comfort them. 

In addition to all the wonderful photos of both Sassy and Daffney in our family albums, I have these most recent photos to share.  It is especially sad this Christmas as the nest is even more empty.  Before we had children, we had pets always around since our first year together in 1973.  This has also come at the time I retired and starting a different pace of life.  It will take some getting use too but I am optimistic that it will all work out in time naturally. It is the right time.  It will be sad for as long as it needs to be.  Both Sassy and Daffney will forever be in our hearts and we thank God for the time that we did have and the joy and friendship they brought into our lives.  This Spring, we will place their new blue stone memorials on their grave sites in our flower garden in our yard.  We will smile and remember them always.

Here we have Sassy and Daffney in their Happy Halloweenie costumes in 2008.

                                                             My sweet foot warmers!

Here is Sassy about 6 weeks before she passed away in October 2009.  She had heart issues.

These three photos above were taken in October 2010.  Daffney proved to be a good companion out in public and we began to take her everywhere with us.  After her mother died, we could no longer leave her alone for long.

This would be Daffney's last winter experience after a blizzard in early 2011. I don't think she wanted to go through another one like that!

This photo was taken just after Daffney's yearly physical on June 21, 2011.  The Veterinarian said said she was very healthy for her age just two months after her 15th birthday!  She was slowing down a bit and her eyes weren't clear but she was happy and got around well enough.  She still would walk with what I called a "hoppity-skip" once in awhile.  She did this when she was full of joy!

These three photos above taken in September 2011 show Daffney with Keith and I when we visited the recently flooded areas near Whiting, Iowa where Keith has family.  Daffney traveled very well!  We loved having her with us and she was no problem at all.  So we decided she could do well to be with us again on our yearly Hot Springs, Arkansas vacation in late October.  This was her second time to Hot Springs and her last trip together with us. 

The above photos were taken on a walk around Garvan Woodland Gardens near Hot Springs, Arkansas.  We carried Daffney most of the time but she never passed up an opportunity to drink water even when she had to share it with the fishes!  The profile photo was the last one taken as she passed away 6 weeks later at home.  She had stopped eating a couple days and on December 1st, we took her to the Veterinarian who took X-rays and blood tests and gave us the sad news that Daffney was in her final days.  Her kidneys were failing.  We brought her home and stayed with her all the time.  Two days later she passed away while we watched "A Wonderful Life" on TV. 

The next day we buried her in our backyard and will plant flowers next Spring.  Sassy's grave is a few feet away.  I went online and found just the right blue stone memorials custom made from Adirondack Stone Works at www.petmemorial.net located in New York.  Sassy was always known as our lap dog as she would insist on sitting in your chair and even scoot you over to squeeze in on the left side.  Then she would nudge your hand to pet her head while she was awake. Daffney was a foot dog.  She always liked best to be at your feet and lay her head upon them.  She would lean into any neck scratches done with your feet.  On the memorials I had engraved for Sassy, "Forever in our hearts...now in God's lap."  For Daffney I had engraved, "Forever in our hearts...now at God's feet."  It will be a quiet Christmas full of love and good memories.